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Continue to ChatMost children would rather preserve the fantasy of a loving connection with their fathers and mothers, at all costs, even if it costs them their self-esteem. When you're three or seven years old, it's less frightening to think of yourself as an unlovable, disappointing screwup than to recognize the fact that you're living with a monster. - Keith Ablow from https://whatsmyquote.com/quote/most-children-would-rather-preserve-the-fantasy-of-a-loving-connection-with-their-fathers-and-mothers-at-all